Showing posts with label church. Show all posts
Showing posts with label church. Show all posts

Sunday, April 6, 2014

Day 7.086: A cake-off

This morning we completed our goodbye-filled weekend with a send-off at church. We've only been going there for about a year and a half, but we were so welcomed that it feels like much longer.

It seems all-too-recently that they had a cake after the service to celebrate our membership, today we had another one to mark our departure.

A piece of it made it to Maine with me


Actually, it was a bit more than that as you might be able to discern.

Monday, March 17, 2014

Day 7.066: A slight slip-up

Here's another picture from the "Rug City + marbles" session last weekend. It has nothing to do with the rest of this post.


On Saturday afternoon, I arrived at my hotel more than 30 minutes before the wedding was due to start. The wedding venue was less than 15 minutes away. I did a quick bag drop in my room then asked the hotel to call me a taxi. So far so good. A few minutes later a taxi arrived. Even better.

This is when it started to go less well. The taxi was not for me. I waited. I waited some more. They called the taxi company again (he'll be right there). More waiting. Even more waiting. The taxi company called the hotel (not a good sign). They would be twenty minutes. It was now 5 minutes before the ceremony was due to start. They called another taxi company - they said ten minutes (at least I might make it by the end). Then a couple of minutes later the first taxi company's taxi showed up. I got in.

It doesn't get better yet.

The driver confirmed the address with me - then spent what felt like ten minutes typing the address into his ancient Garmin GPS. Then we were off - down to the road and make a right turn. I wasn't sure of the route, but that didn't feel right. I tried to see the Garmin, but it didn't seem to be saying anything. A few minutes later it woke up - Recalculating - continue for 0.1 miles and make a U-turn. Great. Just great. I may have muttered something under my breath. The driver pulled over just before a blind turn on the 55 mph one-lane-each-way-with-double-lines, let a car go past us and went for the U-turn. He didn't make it. We were now doing a 3-point turn. By a blind bend. On a fast narrow road.

Then, as we were side-on blocking the whole road, a car came round the blind bend.

We survived that moment of excitement and a few minutes later, we were driving back past the hotel - some 40 minutes after I'd called for the taxi. We eventually arrived at the church. I was too rushed/happy-to-be-alive to be upset by then. I walked in just in turn to hear the end of a song and them being declared husband and wife - well that was the point I suppose.

The rest of the day was - happily - a vast improvement and I wasn't the last to arrive at the church - my friends walked in a couple of minutes behind me (for less dramatic reasons) only in time to hear the bagpiper lead the recessional.

Sunday, January 5, 2014

Day 6.360: Venturing out

I managed to get out of the apartment not just once but three times today. The first was for a run - in daylight for once (I nearly left it too late to be back in time for my second outing - to church). There was no sunrise for me, but I was able to see (and capture with my phone) some things more clearly than is possible at dawn.

Firstly, Back Cove is very icy:


Here's another view - with a bit of elevation provided by the bridge:


Secondly, there is quite a lot of ice in the actual bay (this is the beach just north of downtown Portland):


And thirdly, someone has some serious snowman-making skills (I thought this snow was much too cold and fluffy to manage this):


My third outing was to photograph Back Cove again with the tide a bit higher and with my real camera. I'll have to share those another day once I've picked over them a bit!

Wednesday, December 18, 2013

Day 6.342: Swap it like a yankee!

Had a lovely time at the church Christmas party tonight. A great potluck meal and a yankee gift swap - it doesn't get more American than that.


Pictured: choosing a gift from under the tree and the moment that the person holding #1 got to exercise their right to the final swap of the night!

Wednesday, July 31, 2013

Day 6.202: Special reproduction


On Sunday Exile #2 and I dipped our toes into doing something other than occupying a pew in our new church by performing the "special music" - three pieces of non-congregational music distributed through the service.

Here is one of the songs we prepared for that - reproduced inexpertly this evening and hastily uploaded to YouTube for your listening pleasure!


Wednesday, July 10, 2013

Day 6.181: House and home

We went with the kids and Exile #2's parents to visit Oxford today.  Just like London, we'd never taken the children into Oxford to see the place where we met.

We started with an early-lunch picnic and a short boat trip down the river - once again, apart from a stronger breeze, the weather was perfect.  We walked past the church where we got married nearly 19 years ago (picture in top left includes the new entrance - not there in those days).

From there we headed into Exile #2's college - Christ Church - I think she quite enjoyed taking us past the "no visitors" sign.  The four pictures along the bottom are E5N1 sticking his tongue out, the "Harry Potter staircase" and two pictures inside the cathedral (which serves as the college chapel for those who slum it there!).  The cathedral was a surprise hit thanks to a kids treasure hunt which managed to be interesting to all three of the children - no mean achievement these days.

After that we walked through the city to my old college to round off the visit.  It was strange that the new building of which I was one of the first occupants in my third year is now 22 years old!


Another successful trip to round off our time in Oxfordshire for this year.

Friday, May 17, 2013

Day 6.127: A beautiful evening

It hadn't been the best of weeks at work, so I didn't need much cajoling to leave this afternoon to attend a BBQ at the house of new church acquaintances. It was generally very lovely indeed - the perfect evening weather-wise friendly and interesting people, plenty of kids to run around with - with shared supervising among all the parents.


The location was pretty stunning too!

Sunday, April 28, 2013

Day 6.108: Cars and other achievements

This morning, all three kids took part in the youth-service at church. The service was entirely led by the kids of the congregation from Kindergartners to High Schoolers. Exile #3 rang a bell, both the girls led a call-and-response and all three of them took part in a song/dance of Simple Gifts. It was actually pretty great and some of the older children were extremely accomplished in music and public-speaking.

In more mundane matters, there has been a lot of Lego activity since E5N1's birthday bonanza of sets. The last couple of days have seen a lot of car design.

Here are Exile #4's, mine and Exile #3's from the first challenge and then the team effort in the biggest car challenge - accompanied by E5N1's special tiny car addition.


I should point out - because it was pointed out to me - that, of course, the Ewoks and skeleton horse on the sides of the large car are statues because - unlike the rest of it I suppose - they are not real things.

Monday, December 24, 2012

Day 5.349: Happy Christmas #6


We celebrated Christmas Eve with a walk at Five Rivers and a Carol Service at what is probably now after five visits in less than four weeks 'our new church'.

Bu the main responsibility of the day was making our Christmas video.  We went for a song - although not actually a Christmas song, it is seasonal.  I was surprised when looking back at our videos to find that it is four years since our last song (it was our first Christmas video - marking the first year we were actually here in the US for the holidays).  It was followed by the snowballing the camera video, the Advent calendar replay and the magic toy chest.

Anyway, Happy Christmas or whatever other holidays you might be celebrating around this time of year and, as ever, thanks for reading, watching, commenting and making it worthwhile for me to continue this crazy obsessive record of our life here!


Sunday, December 9, 2012

Day 5.334: More than he could chew

We had a pretty busy day which included (for one or more of us) a 13 mile run, a skating lesson, a game of Monopoly (Exile #4 declared the winner when we had to abandon), a work meeting around my dining table and a second visit to a new-to-us church.

Here is E5N1 making the most of his dessert.


But the title refers to this fellow, who I watched carrying this huge chunk of bread up into a tree, dropping it at least twice before finally stopping to tuck in.


We also saw one of his cousins a.k.a. public enemy number one - the chipmunk, filling his cheeks with seed scattered from our recently reinstated bird feeder.  If those birds don't learn to eat a bit more carefully, they may be disappointed to find the feeder empty once more.

Monday, December 3, 2012

Day 5.328: Remembering Saturday

On Saturday evening we were invited to a party with friends from our now-defunct little church.

We had a great time - we knew everyone there - even though we hadn't seen one family for more than five years. Shocking to realise that we've been here long enough to have such old acquaintances.

Oh yes, and E5N1 made a candy-cane reindeer.


All of which is much more pleasing than a back-to-work-and-school Monday will ever be!

Sunday, October 14, 2012

Day 5.278: Friends far and near


I've never been very good at keeping in touch with people. I have great friendships and value them hugely but I've just never been very good at correspondence of any sort. It's not even that I don't think about people when they're not around - I do - I just don't do anything about it.

I realise that this blog has meant that my friends are very much in touch with what we're doing, but it is - to a close approximation - the only way anyone hears from me.

So it is all the more joyful when we see our friends and find that they are still friends even when we've barely been in touch for so long.

D, often referred to as "Exile #3's godmother" - mostly because it's an easy nameless epithet that fits with the anonymity that I value here - was probably our first friend when we moved house (across the UK) in late 2000. We met her at a church homegroup meeting and she immediately made the place feel more like it could be home for us.  She is flying back to the UK now, I drove her to the Amtrak station after she posed for this picture.

This evening J and T were over for dinner as we mark the end of our crazy little church.  Much like the way we met D, we met them (properly at least) at a church homegroup meeting when we had recently arrived here.  Now, we will move on as friends, but no longer as co-leaders of our church to see what the future holds for us and our families.  After five years it's a strange feeling, but we have gained much and learned much and shared much and will move on positively, not looking back and wondering about the what-ifs.

Friday, August 3, 2012

Day 5.206: Pool fun

It was the perfect evening for this:


Once it was getting dark, we brought the kids home to bed and watched some Olympics - and now it's past time I was in bed!

Monday, July 16, 2012

Day 5.188: Shakers, Tero, Lauren and Aleph

The dance performance that Exile #2 and I went to see on Saturday at Jacob's Pillow was a piece called Borrowed Light by Finnish choreographer, Tero Saarinen. It is a collaboration between Tero and seven other dancers from his company and singers from Boston Camerata who perform some Shaker songs on stage in amongst the dancers.

I've been interested in the Shakers since we started visiting the local sites where they lived.  Here we are close to the original Shaker site in the US - the birthplace of American Shakerism if you like.

As I wrote a year ago:
The Shakers - despite their nearly-extinct status - seem very 'now' to me, with their understanding of the equality of the sexes, sustainable living, and a theology of humble non-certainty.
The dance piece - 'inspired by' more than 'about' the Shakers - is a fusion of some of these ideas with aspects of Finnish folk dance and other things.  Only the music is really Shaker, but there are many references throughout the work to Shaker worship and life in movement as well as sound.

I recently read and very much enjoyed Mr Lincoln's Chair - a book about the Shakers by Anita Sanchez following a recommendation in a comment on this blog.  So that was in my mind as we watched and listened, but the more visceral reaction took me to a less obvious place.  As the lights went up giving us our first glimpse of the wonderful set, dancers and singers, the lead dancer stood with her back to us at the front of the stage and began to walk in deliberate silence slowly away from us and towards the other performers. We knew that there would be rhythmic stomping later, so this silent advance was all the more striking.

It immediately reminded me of a piece that Lauren Winner read for us during her session with Over The Rhine at the Wild Goose Festival a few weeks ago.

In it, she spoke about how the first letter in the first word of the first commandment that God spoke to Israel was Aleph - a letter with no sound - a pause or silent breath to still the world to hear from him.*

And that is how that moment on Saturday evening felt - we waited - hardly wanting to breathe - and watched as the silent moment passed and then we were ready to see and hear when the singing and dancing started.

Here are a few snippets of the stunning Borrowed Light:





* I'm not coming close to doing her piece justice.  You can hear an earlier, longer and maybe slightly less evocative version of Lauren's words about Aleph here.

Sunday, January 29, 2012

Day 5.019: Pajama day

Well, we had a quiet night.  Today, the rest of us got dressed, but the American in the family didn't bother to - hence the spelling.


After breakfast, he went back to bed for an hour or so and has seemed definitely below-par for most of the day but at least it's been incident free.  Even when we persuaded them to all go outside this afternoon, he just wore his snow pants and coat over his night clothes.  It didn't seem to stop him contributing to some all important digging.

As you can see, he attempted some basic planking today.  I'm so proud.  He is actually conscious and happy in that picture so it counts.

This evening, the girls all went to church but we kept E5N1 in quarantine, meaning more hanging-out time with Daddy.  We made this Magnatile fellow, played Monopoly Junior and No Stress Chess and read some stories.  Now we just hope that this is a genuine recovery and not just another lull in the action.

Sunday, November 27, 2011

Day 4.321: Mountain view


We've had a busy day.  We had the family of one of Exile #4's classmates over for lunch.  Their two oldest (almost the same age as our two youngest) and our kids played happily in between food and the adults found time to chat (and coo a little over the baby).

We had a really nice gathering at church and then spent the rest of the evening putting a second coat of paint on Exile #3's bedroom walls (she is sleeping in Exile #4's room - not in the middle of the decorating zone).

I took exactly no pictures today, so here is the view of the Catskills from our drive on Friday - I said it was scenic!

Sunday, October 23, 2011

Day 4.286: New York City visit

No, we haven't been down to the city - two residents of the city came to see us.



We met B & M, previously referred to as "E5N1's new friends", at the Wild Goose Festival after they spotted the New York State plates on our car as we were unpacking.  They came up to hang out with us, see some late-Fall countryside, entertain the kids almost constantly, visit our church gathering and generally get worn out. Well, I hope that's why the came - because that's what happened.

It was great. I may fill in some of the details later but it's been a fairly full-on weekend and it's time to sleep!

Saturday, September 3, 2011

Day 4.236: Wedding (anniversary)

Our preparations for the wedding were interrupted briefly by some anniversary cards and well-wishes this morning but seventeen years on from our wedding day, we were mostly occupied by Exile #2's brother's wedding.

I took more than 400 pictures apparently - only a small fraction of which will be fit for public consumption. I won't attempt to do them justice tonight, but here are the Exiles dressed up for the occasion and the happy couple to be going along with.


Sunday, August 7, 2011

Day 4.209: Cannonball!

We had our church gathering at our friends' pool today. It was a perfect afternoon - the expected rain held off until we were driving home. At some point during the afternoon, Exile #3 decided to brave the diving board.


And where she goes, very often her siblings follow:


It was E5N1 who did it shouting "Cannonball!" at the top of his voice while stepping gingerly off the board with his enormous floatie on!

Friday, July 1, 2011

Day 4.172: Greenbelt and the Wild Goose

This post was included in the July Synchroblog - Stories of the Wild Goose.  See the end for links.

As a young British Christian in the late 80's, I first attended Greenbelt with my church youth group. It was, as far as I can discern, 1988 - although I would have guessed that that was my second one. In any case I was definitely there in 1988, 1989, 1990 and 1991 and probably in 1992. That means that the last time I went I was about half my current age.

This year, I attended the first Wild Goose Festival which has been, in part at least, modelled on the Greenbelt Festival and although I'd like to think I am a completely different person and that it was a completely different festival, there are definitely parallels in my experiences.

For me aged 17-20, Greenbelt was about music. First and foremost I mean listening to live music which I am inclined to love even if it is not the music I would listen to in recorded form. Then, in 1989, my little three-piece band took a generator and played gigs in the campsite in the rain from a caravan awning for our friends, people camping nearby and a few passers-by. In 1990, we did the same (in rather better weather and also played in the bandstand in the middle of the 'Fringe' area of the festival trying to win a Fringe-stage set in a feature they called "Gi's a Gig!". In 1991, we once again got a set on the bandstand but when the power went out mid way through, we picked up an acoustic guitar and entertained the crowd in the dusk gloom until it came on again. The organisers so appreciated our efforts that we finally got our Fringe-stage set.


So yes, it was about music - but also about a remarkable community and atmosphere. From the people who peeked their heads out of their tents when the rain cleared during our set in the campsite in 1989 to the people who we kept happy during a power outage in 1991. No-one wanted us to look bad or feel bad or point out that we were forcing our not-very-good music on them - it was about creativity and community and originality and everyone was happy to be part of it.

If I'm honest I would have liked to fit a little more music into my Wild Goose Festival visit, but by the time the last act was starting up at the main stage each night, our kids were getting tired and needing to be in bed.  Also, we needed to be in certain places at specific times to get them to and from their kids activities and find food to ensure their blood-sugar levels stayed within tolerable levels.

When, our friends first suggested we might go with them to the festival this year and described it to us, we said, "it sounds like Greenbelt."  We had no idea at the time that there was any relationship, nor did we know that this US festival was new.  As I began to look for information about it, I started to see the push-back from parts of evangelical Christianity against it.  Some of it was, shall we say, rather strong.  Of course, I already knew about the ties between evangelical Christianity and right-wing politics in the US before we moved here but I hadn't realised quite how pervasive that link is.   I have been learning, gradually, over the last four years and 172 days and now finding myself as something of a radical/progressive/liberal over here I was also keen to be involved in the non-musical parts of the event and to identify myself with the kinds of ideas that were being talked about at the festival partly because the word 'Christian' in America has become so divorced from what I hope to be as I attempt to follow Jesus.

Just one example was hearing Frank Shaeffer talk about how his family helped to shape the religious right in the US and how that led, in part at least, to the situation the country finds itself in now where for many Christians an event such as this is demonstrably anti-Christ because there are people there espousing social politics over war, ethical consumerism and other such 'evils'.  I also loved hearing about his mother's radical actions - taking in unmarried pregnant girls and a lesbian maid and her partner and taking an interest in the poor people she met, even when in the presence of the powers in the land.  He called her the best kind of hypocrite because her actions were far more loving than her words.

If this kind of conversation was going on at GB '90 it passed me by altogether.  Perhaps that is just as well as I was a rather conservative evangelical myself in those days - not in a way that would have considered social programmes un-Christian by a long stretch, but I certainly would not have been cheering on the New York State government's legalisation of same-sex marriage in those days. Having said that, it's notable that Greenbelt was fairly mainstream in British Christianity - Wild Goose has a long way to go to become mainstream here in the US - but we can hope!


But in the end for me it comes back to music - from Runrig ('88) and Bruce Cockburn ('89), to Jennifer Knapp in 2011 and from gigging in the Fringe in 1991 to singing Death Cab For Cutie and Sufjan Stevens songs with my friend by the campfire this year, music is the stuff that stirs my heart - but it is experiencing it in a unique community that has made my experience of these festivals so special.


Earlier thoughts and lots photos here.

UPDATE: Here are the other synchroblog posts.